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Reason #3: Blame
If no one reads this but me, it was still well worth the time to research it and write it because I need this as much as anyone does. BLAME! One of the main reasons that we don’t change our story is because we point blame in every direction except towards ourselves. I call it a visit to the “excuse factory”.
Here’s a list of the few I’ve used already this morning:
- My internet is too slow
- The right side of my back is sore
- I don’t have the resources for a better website
- I’m out of paper for the printer
- I lost my train of thought because the power company meter reader just walked past my office window
- Oh, here’s a monkey wrench…while I was writing this list I just received a phone call with a job offer – one more thing to think about.
All This Blame is making me feel better already, it’s no wonder my story’s not changing with all of these obstacles and distractions…it’s not my fault after all. That statement sums up why we blame everything under the sun for our lack of progress, because it takes the pressure off “US”. We can’t feel guilty about not getting things done if our internet is too slow, we have a sore back, or our website is not up to par. If the phone is ringing, the printer is out of paper and someone walks past our window distracting our brilliant mind from producing ground breaking content that will change the world…Its Not My Fault!
Blame steals our power
Here lies the problem with blame, we can’t control all of those things, so if all of those things are the reason we’re stuck, we’ll stay stuck forever. If we allow those things to determine our future then we’ve given away our power to change. We need to realize that we are responsible for our current situation, and if we’re responsible for it, then we also have the power to change it.
In his book Mastering The Seven Decisions, author Andy Andrews says…”Responsibility is about hope and control…If where you are today is not in your control, then how can tomorrows fait be better”
Shorten the list
The best way we can start Changing our Story is to scratch Blame off the list by taking responsibility. Blame makes us weak and hopeless to change, but Responsibility gives us hope for our future, and the power to take action…to quote Andy Andrews again…”You cannot let your history control your destiny”
Let’s claim the power of our decisions and Change our Story, When We Change Our Story, We Change Our World!
Blessings,
Randell
Kathy and I have said this to our kids over and over again (and we heard it from our parents when we were growing up). When you point a finger at someone else, three fingers and a thumb are pointing back at you.
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